Past Length and Convexity: Eight Methods to Bond with Clients


After working with non-public shoppers for 27 years, I’ve achieved many non-traditional issues past providing them funding recommendation. I’ve gone for runs; attended funerals, bar mitzvahs, and live shows; and even referred one shopper to a top-flight pro-sports surgeon when he dislocated his shoulder.

This 12 months, I mailed vacation playing cards to each shopper. It featured a photograph of my husband and me with our gigantic Bernese Mountain canine, Grace, all sporting our Santa hats — effectively, Grace refused to put on hers. Just a few days later I obtained this word from one in all my long-time shoppers:


Thank you for the fantastic card.

I really feel I want to satisfy the one “member of the household” that I’ve by no means had the privilege of wanting within the eye.

May 2023 be a brilliant 12 months for you & Duncan.

All finest,

(His title)

This was the primary time I’ve had a shopper request a gathering with my canine! And in fact, I set it up instantly. Grace and I had an excellent go to with this pretty couple, and we talked about matters that had completely nothing to do with their funding portfolio. Grace was thrilled that they supplied her some rippled potato chips and many stomach rubs. What a enjoyable solution to begin the New Year!

Here are seven extra shocking methods to bond with shoppers:

Maria Pia Leon, Director Client Services, Forbes Family Trust, Miami

“A few years in the past, a long-time shopper requested me to assist him with a really completely different process: placing up and restoring a 1960 Rolls Royce. It was the automobile he had utilized in his marriage ceremony, and over time, it had deteriorated. I’ve at all times liked traditional automobiles, and I at all times had the loopy thought of engaged on a 1978 Porsche 911, so this request was not a lot out of my realm.

“The challenge took us three years; then whereas he was visiting final summer season, we lastly went for a trip within the automobile. Just the look on his face confirmed me that these three years of reviewing catalogs, auctions, and colour palettes had been so worthwhile. This entrepreneur embraced his ardour and helped a household custom proceed. As a trusted adviser, I see my position as serving to to maintain the wealth for generations, and for me, this features a automobile with which means whether it is a part of a household story. I’m happy this automobile can be used for weddings and particular events of future generations.”

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Blair duQuesnay, CFA, Lead Advisor, Preserve, Ritholtz Wealth Management, New Orleans

“Last fall I used to be planning on travelling to Southern California for an occasion, so I made a decision to succeed in out to a number of shoppers within the space to rearrange conferences. I had by no means met one in all my newer shoppers in individual: We began working collectively originally of the pandemic, so we had solely met nearly. She is a single retired lady who lives alone in Northern San Diego County, which is kind of an extended drive — half-hour or so — from the place I used to be staying. I informed her I’d search for a neighborhood lodge and we might have dinner collectively. She stated, ‘Why don’t you simply stick with me?’

“Now perhaps this might sound a bit bizarre, however I stated ‘Sure,’ and we ended up having a really relaxed time attending to know one another. She gave me a tour of her stunning property and backyard, we went to a not-fancy native place for dinner, and later we watched Netflix on her sofa collectively . . . identical to pals. The subsequent morning, I drove again to LA with pomegranates and fervour fruit from her backyard. My daughter actually liked the fervour fruit!”

Kathrine Madsen, Senior Investment Advisor HNWI/UHNWI, Private Banking Elite, Danske Bank, Copenhagen

“When I began out on this enterprise 15 years in the past at age 28, contemporary out of Copenhagen Business School, I used to be very self-conscious and at all times questioning if I used to be ok to do that job. Over the years, I’ve realized you can memorize P/E ratios however that gained’t make you reliable. Either you might have a trusting relationship along with your shoppers otherwise you don’t. Trust has to come back naturally. I like to present my shoppers a way of who I’m in actual life, not simply the company Kathrine.

“During the pandemic, one in all my wealthiest shoppers and I deepened our bond: We each had a variety of time on our arms. On event she would ship me LinkedIn profiles of males she deemed to be good potential for me thus far. Then I shared along with her that I had taken on a vastly difficult challenge of renovating my kitchen all on my own. She stated ‘Oh how cool are you? Send me some photos!’

“I’ve an built-in dishwasher, and it was a troublesome job getting it to suit correctly. The plate needed to completely match to the highest drawer of my kitchen desk. I used to be so excited that I aced it on the primary try! I filmed a video of this profitable scenario and texted it to my shopper. At age 28, I’d by no means ever have anticipated that I’d do one thing this odd, texting a video of my dishwasher to a serious shopper. It is fascinating how a majority of these relationships begin and the way they evolve.”

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Guillaume Drouin Garneau, CIM, Portfolio Manager, RBC Dominion Securities, Montreal

“In addition to being an funding adviser, I’m a passionate bike owner, in pursuit of journey, pushing my bodily and psychological boundaries to new ranges. I’m additionally the co-owner of Le Club Espresso Bar, an internet retailer of premium biking manufacturers and a singular house providing an espresso bar and a boutique below the identical roof. Our mission is easy: To collect and develop the biking neighborhood, present a choice of high-quality biking manufacturers, and to increase the third wave of espresso, a motion to supply high-quality espresso.

“Just a few of my shoppers are very fascinated with espresso, and one requested me to go to his dwelling and provides him an introductory crash course in the best way to make barista-level espresso. I confirmed him the best way to correctly arrange his new machine and all of the instruments and methods for pouring. It was an excellent bonding expertise, and I now provide my assist to a couple of my different shoppers who’re obsessed with espresso: This has grow to be a parallel journey to my funding advisory follow.”

Coreen Sol, CFA, Senior Portfolio Manager, CIBC Wood Gundy, Vancouver

“As many advisers will attest, our shoppers’ values and hopes over time naturally create an enriched relationship past the anticipated transactional duties of a fiduciary. As an instance, I’m constructing a neighborhood challenge to have fun a household structure agency that has impacted the town and is a part of the historical past and cloth of the area. Knowing them as shoppers all these years, I noticed the unbelievable impact of their work and their position in constructing the Okanagan area. They have designed important buildings in most of the area’s civic and social centres, vital business developments, residential tasks, faculties, and historic constructing restoration.

“I used to be impressed to acknowledge their work in a espresso desk ebook crammed with shiny pages of iconic photographs, early renderings, and tales of the neighborhood for the advantage of the individuals who dwell there. Everyone on the challenge can be native specialists — from the photographers to the writer — and all of the proceeds help native charities.”

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Tricia Leadbeater, CFA, Portfolio Manager, Richardson Wealth, Calgary

“I’ve supplied my shoppers with journey ideas from native pals in uncommon places starting from distant New Zealand to Barcelona; given referrals to artwork valuators and artwork restoration specialists; and I’ve hosted visitor audio system who’re true explorers and adventurers to study in regards to the components of the world that solely a handful ever expertise. I concentrate on constructing neighborhood: During our lockdown within the pandemic, I despatched an insider’s metropolis journey information for Calgary to shoppers so we might uplift our views and recognize the chance to find uncommon and sudden places near dwelling, whereas we couldn’t journey overseas.

“This neighborhood constructing has benefited me personally. My dwelling metropolis, Calgary, suffered a giant flood in 2013, and I used to be very lucky to have had dozens of strangers and pals assist me shortly triage my home scenario. I used to be then in a position to assist a shopper a number of blocks away dig out her basement: an uncommon alternative to get to know her and her household higher. We proceed to be nice pals to at the present time.”

Marguerita Cheng, CFP, Chief Executive Officer, Blue Ocean Global Wealth, Washington, DC

“My shopper is a professor, and he’s on his toes lots: He was complaining to me about foot ache. I’m not a medical skilled, however he requested me how I address foot ache as a result of he is aware of I’m additionally on my toes lots. I informed him that footwear are actually private. I listed a number of manufacturers for him and talked about that my daughter skilled his actual kind of ache. From there I beneficial a particular kind of shoe and arch help for him, and I additionally informed him that socks are actually vital. I despatched him three completely different pairs of socks with a present receipt and a word: He was welcome to alternate them. He despatched me a message to say that not solely does he thank his monetary adviser for caring for his household, however now he has pleased toes. He informed me that there’s no going again.

“The socks and different ideas had been a complete sport changer. I took the time to concentrate on the small print, and this allowed me to attach on a deeper stage. Socks could appear small, however shoppers know I’m listening and paying consideration.”  

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Barbara Stewart, CFA

Barbara Stewart is a Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA) with 30 years of funding trade expertise; 5 years as a overseas foreign money dealer, greater than 20 years as a portfolio supervisor for top web price entrepreneurs, and in the course of the previous six years, as an interview-driven researcher for a number of international monetary establishments. She is a keynote speaker for CFA societies, banks, inventory exchanges, and trade conferences globally, and he or she is a columnist for CFA Institute and Canadian Money Saver. She is on the Advisory Board for Kensington Capital Partners and likewise is the Ambassador for the Kensington Women’s Forum. Thirteen years in the past Stewart noticed a have to problem outdated monetary trade stereotypes and share constructive messages about girls and cash. Today, she is acknowledged worldwide as one of many main researchers in girls and finance. Rich Thinking® international analysis papers quote sensible men and women of all ages, professions, and international locations, and are launched yearly on International Women’s Day, 8 March.
To discover out extra about her analysis, go to Barbara Stewart.


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